Brandy on May 10th, 2010

Hey everybody.  I don’t have any fun pictures, but I wanted to let you all know that Ted is in Belarus.  He’s been there for several days now.  You may be asking yourselves “Why Belarus?”  Well, it is still completely illegal to proselytize there except via forms of art.  And video happens to be a legitimate form of art.  So he is there along with Jim Meyer, training a couple of churches on how to use video as a form of ministry.  It is very exciting stuff.  When they arrived Ted felt like the team they were working with already knew everything he could teach them, but as they continue to work together it seems they really needed to learn how to work together as a team, and will then be able to produce even better projects.  It is very exciting to get his updates via email.  I’m sorry we don’t have any fun pictures, but we’ll try to post some when he returns.

Also, I’m not sure if you’re following the volcano action in Iceland, but the ash cloud that it keeps on producing has caused cancellations in flights all over Europe.  Germany and Belarus are not omitted.  So please pray that Ted and Jim’s trip will end well (Thurs) and they will be able to come home to us as planned.  We’d really like to have Daddy back home.  :)

Thanks so much and we’ll keep you posted.

Blessings, the Coxes

Britt on April 20th, 2010

Before:

To all my Dear Friends and Family,

Just wanted to share this with you :~)

“Then he isn’t safe?” said Lucy.
“Safe?” said Mr. Beaver; “don’t you hear what Mrs. Beaver tells you? Who said anything about safe? ‘Course he isn’t safe. But he’s good. He’s the King, I tell you.”
~The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe  by C.S. Lewis

My brother and I have just returned from our annual Winter Conference (or Ski Camp) that GEM hosts specifically for the teens… a.k.a. A week of snow boarding/skiing and just general “hanging out” in the French Alps with other dear and loved GEM-K’s (Greater Europe Mission Kids).  I love the actual conference part of the camp.  Our speakers always have messages that wrangle and draw our minds into traveling through ideas and concepts most people would consider “best left alone.”  This year we discussed the imagination and how it might become captive to culture, media and the worldly messages that are preached through them.  And how, if our minds become ensnared with these messages, we lose the capability to tell an alternate story- a story of truth, of unfathomable love,  that rocks the imagination of the world’s close-minded foundation.
We also discussed how the church might have become captive too, and fall into the trap of the idea that Jesus is someone to worship not follow, someone tame enough to be held by sanctuary walls, stain-glass windows and a steeple.  When in reality, we were not saved by a normal, tame man who passively gave up his life.  Rather a wild one.  A saviour who purposely set up his ministry on the shores of a possessed man’s haunt,  the home of a wild and positively insane scoundrel who was both a joke and a real danger to the community he had been cast out of.  A man possessed by not one, but a legion of demons.  And it was Jesus, who was not only brave and enough of a wild man himself to cast out the Legion, but crazy enough to have mercy on the demons themselves, and cast them into the pigs near-by as they asked.  It was Jesus who was wild enough to ravage a market,  set up in the temple no less, screaming for the people to “Get out!” at the top of his royal lungs, as he over turned tables and stands, all because that market was making a profit in a place and time that was not honoring God.  A mad-man who surrendered his life to his enemies, to save them.  WHO does that?!
These stories leads us to ask, well, if Jesus is wild, is he safe? And if I choose to follow him, can I do it without being wild myself? “’Course he isn’t safe. But he’s good.”  Not safe.  But good.  And when I choose to accept his gift of mercy, at all cost to him, (that mad-man…) I’m no longer safe.  Not safe to stay at home, or mind my own business when I go out, but tossed out to experience life and living in a better more astounding, more good way than ever would have been possible had I been
kept safe.
This year, I awaited in anticipation when the mission trips would be announced.  I applied for the three, whose ambitions and goals tugged at my heart the most.  I trusted God to place me in the group where I would serve best, and this spring break my Wild Saviour is leading me on a mission to fill a need in to Skopje, Macedonia, where His team of 12 students and 2 adults will be involved with the “Roma” or Gypsy children and youth through sports activities, perhaps in a carnival type setting with games, face painting, etc. Or just planning other engaging activities for children.  There will be an ESL (English as a Second Language) time – where we will have teen to teen contact, a time to wrangle and draw their minds around this possibility of a Wild Saviour with a story of truth, a story of unfathomable love, penned out in His personal handwriting specifically for them.  This trip will cost 800
Euros, or 1,200 dollars.
Challenge: I would like to ask you to sincerely and prayerfully consider if our Wild Saviour might be asking you to commit to praying for this team up until and during the week of March 25- April 2, 2010 and/or offer to be one of the financial supporters that we need.  Will you be one of six $100, or eight $75 givers?

~Love,
Brittany

After:

Hey Friends and Family,

Just wanted to let you know, I’m home.  The week I spent in Macedonia
was incredible, amazing, crazy, unexpected, an emotional roller coaster, exhausting and… a blessing.  Our group visited two Roma/ Gypsy neighborhoods.  The neighborhoods looked more like slums.  It was gut-wrenching.  The Gypsy people, who call themselves the Roma are a totally different race and hold to a culture and language than the natives of the country they live in.  Thus there is a severe
amount of  discrimination.  The first day in our first neighborhood we spent just playing with the gypsy kids and teens that came to the playground… it was insane.  This culture was SO physical!  it was completely natural for the kids to attack each other, for example just because one wanted to jump rope and the other was in the way.  Like, full out attack, punching kicking screaming.  But on the
flip-side they were very snugly.  They were just normal kids, with a larger “lovin’s” capacity.  They would latch on and give hugs and kisses galore.  Also, they were very, very, very, very dirty.  Most of them didn’t have proper clothes or shoes.  The kids we were playing with were from families with an average of six to eight children.  In Roma culture, it’s unusual if a person over 21 is unmarried and not a parent of four or more.  The second neighborhood was rougher, scarier, dirtier and the kids were meaner, more hopeless.  The “playground” looked more like a cage.  It made me just want to sit down on the filthy, glass strewn pavement and cry.  We cleaned up their “playground” and loved on them with all the energy we had left.  In between our playground dates,  we hosted ESL/coffee/ share the gospel times for older teens in the neighborhoods.  During this time we exchanged cultural experiences, thoughts, ideas and beliefs.  When our group encountered the vast need of this people, physical and spiritual, it was very hard not to wonder “What difference are we going to make?  Their need is so big, there are so many of them.  And we are so small, so foreign, so few, and only here for a short time.  How could we possibly reach them?” Which is funny because at the very beginning of our trip God gave us a verse: Zecariah 4: 10, “Who despises the day of the small things?  Men will rejoice when they see the plumb line in the hand of Zerubbabel.”  Now I don’t know what’s going on with the second part of that verse, but I do know the verse was in reference to a temple being built.  And I also know, you can’t build a temple without leveling the ground before you could even lay a foundation.  I figure that’s what God called us to do in Macedonia, level the ground, or part of it anyway.  Because the salvation of these people is gonna take more than a group of thirteen teenagers and a few leaders on a week long visit.  I want to thank you for your support, both financial and prayerful, this trip meant a lot to me and to those we served.

Much. much. much. love,

~Brittany

Ted on March 23rd, 2010

Here’s the most recent how2video.  I’m in the midst of trying to get scripts written for all the other installments, so we can shoot them next month.  :)


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Ted on December 22nd, 2009

This was originally written on December 8th.  It’s just taken a little while to get it posted this month:

Being the person who has their phone and internet turned off for not paying the bill, is not a part of my normal self image.  In fact, I typically see myself as a good credit rating, bills-paid-on-time sort of person.  So Friday when our phone suddenly stopped making outbound calls (but continued to recieve calls) I figured that our prodigal Telkom was striking again.  That may require a bit of clarification.  Suffice to say that we’ve had all sorts of problems with Telkom, from failed/sub-standard hardware, to service outages, to inexplicable billing.  Friday morning, when the phone stopped, I thought we’d give it a bit of time and see if things resolved themselves.  This was an easy decision since I don’t really like talking on the phone much.  Saturday morning when the internet went out, I got a little more uncomfortable.  But I figured that was just confirmation the line was messed up some where and I assumed they were working on it.  However, by Sunday, when none of our neighbors were having problems and we were still without service, I picked up the phone — the cell phone — to call Telkom.

I’m not a fan of making phone calls.  I don’t know why, but I have an almost irrational fear of it.  Making them in German is even more scary.  Often, when conversing in German, my fears are realized, and I can’t understand a word the person on the other end of the phone is saying.  However, this phone conversation went fairly smoothly, and after a few attempts the Telkom representative made it clear to me that they had not received our last payment.

Virtually everything here in German is handled via electronic funds transfer.  When you recieve a bill, it comes with a little yellow slip you fill out to have the funds transfered, or you can go online and transfer the funds directly from the bank.  These transfers are not instant, however.  They usually take 24 hours.  You probably see where this is going.  We’d payed the bill, but because it’s been a very challenging season for us financially, we’d paid it at the last minute.  Some hiccup in the process meant that Telkom didn’t process it before the weekend, and so they shut off our service.  It took until Tuesday to get our service restored.

This came at an interesting time for me, though.  I don’t know if it’s a stage of culture shock, or just a lot of stress, but I’ve been finding it more difficult to really make a connection with God.  I often feel like He’s terminated my service, and I don’t know why.  It seems arbitrary and unfair.  But when I’m really honest, I realize that my sense of disconnection isn’t coming from God, but rather it’s the result of my own actions.  I rush through my devotional and prayer time to get on to “more important” things.  I get angry when He leads me to some struggle or trial that’s meant to shape me into a better man, instead of leading me to the prosperity and ease I desire.  The communications disconnect isn’t really God’s doing at all.  It’s my own, just like our service getting interrupted because we paid the bill too late.  Unlike Telkom, though, God doesn’t punatively disconnect my service, He’s always tuned in.  I just can’t hear Him when I drown out his voice with my own noise.

Ted on November 11th, 2009

It was a very long process getting this video done.  My role in GEM’s annual conference, as well as numerous other projects kept pushing it further and further back, not to mention the scope of the material being pretty challenging to begin with.  However, over the past several months, how2video.org has become the permanent home on the web for the series (even if the site is still just a place holder), I’ve gotten to work with some great new people, had a blast working with some friends, and the first and probably the most difficult instructional video is done.  :)   Let me know what you think.


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